This month:
Step Five) Adding Awareness to your Waking Consciousness
The Six Basic Steps by Marc Vandekeere
The following is an excerpt from my manual, The Ultimate Lucid Dreaming
Manual Basics and Beyond. I hope it can be used to maximize your lucid dreaming
progress. If you find this information helpful you may want to check out my
lucid dreaming website for further info, tips, resources and more. The URL of my
site is http://how.to/luciddream and if you have any questions, feedback or
comments, feel free to send me an email. I'm always happy to hear from other
dreamers and love to help out. if and when I can, thelucidbird@mediaone.net .
Stay lucid.
So now we've come to the payoff. In order to make this material more
user-friendly, the information has been divided into four categories, and there
will also be an summarized outline at the end of the manual. By getting an
overview at a glance, it may be easier for you to thoroughly learn, absorb and
internalize all the information. Hopefully, it will help tighten all the
concepts into one working whole.
The Process
Section One - The Six Basic Steps
Section Two - Other methods
Section Three - General tips
Section Four - Tools and Tactics
All these sections have one objective - teaching you how to become lucid in
your dreams. After you've learned the process, methods, tips, tools, and
tactics, we'll cover the more advanced techniques that you will need to know
once you become lucid.
The Process
There are many techniques and methods that you can use for inducing lucid
dreams, but there are basically two different ways of becoming lucid. You can
either have dream-induced or wake-induced lucid dreams. Stephen LaBerge coined
the term D.I.L.D. (Dream Induced Lucid Dream) for dreams in which you become
lucid while within a dream. By training your awareness, you will somehow realize
that you are dreaming while you are dreaming. This is by far the most common way
of having a lucid dream, but it is also possible to directly enter a lucid dream
from a waking state. These Wake Induced Lucid Dreams, or W.I.L.D.s, are far more
rare, but as LaBerge so aptly labeled them, they are quite an experience. While
covering the basics we will be dealing primarily with dream induced lucid
dreams. When we move beyond the basics, we will be dealing with the more
advanced techniques that will include inducing W.I.L.D.s. There are many methods
to induce lucid dreams, but there is an underlying process behind most if not
all of them. I've broken this underlying process down into six basic steps that
will serve as our beginning regime. Once you absorb these steps and start
following them, it is only a matter of time before you have your first lucid
dream. In case you are wondering how long it will take for you to have you first
one, just follow through with the steps and have faith that you will have one.
According to statistics, the time it takes for someone to have their first
lucid dream averages from three weeks to two months, but yours may be tonight so
don't be discouraged if you try for a while and don't succeed. There seems to be
an obsession in our society for instant results. If you are one of these people,
realize that this is one of your first obstacles to overcome. Only one thing is
certain - If you never stop trying, you are guaranteed to succeed.
The Six Basic Steps
1) Doing the Mental Prep-Work - see Electric Dreams 7(4) April 2000
2) Increasing dream recall -FOCUS THIS MONTH
3) Keeping a dream journal
4) Becoming familiar with your Dreams
5) Adding Awareness to your Waking Consciousness
6) Linking your Awareness to your Dreams
Step Five) Adding Awareness to your Waking Consciousness
This step alone could be the subject of its own book. It is almost a method
in itself, but used in conjunction with the other steps, it becomes an optimal
way to learn lucid dreaming. As a matter of fact, the whole process of lucid
dreaming is achieved by training your awareness. The idea is to increase our
daily awareness in order to benefit from the carryover effects it will have on
our dreaming awareness. If you are more aware during the day, you will become
more aware while dreaming. There are many ways to increase our awareness, and we
will delve into many of them in this section. The handling and manipulation of
our awareness will become one of the central issues for the rest of this manual.
Ironically, as you begin to exercise and strengthen your awareness you may just
realize that you are not usually aware of how unaware you really are throughout
most of your day.
Since this is such an important aspect, it is crucial to have a workable
understanding of these concepts. The ultimate goal is learning how to apply
these principles to create results. First, we will deal with the concept of
awareness and then we will learn the practical applications. The term awareness
as we will be referring to it applies to your consciousness. How conscious are
you? It alludes to your current level of self-observation. How aware are you of
your awareness? It refers to your level of mindfulness. How centered is your
awareness? It refers to your waking mental state of affairs. How truly aware are
you? For our purposes here, these questions will culminate in your dreams when
you become aware that you are dreaming by asking yourself, am I aware? And
ultimately, am I dreaming?
For many people these reflective questions go unasked and in turn they remain
unanswered. Most people were never taught that there are differing levels of
awareness nor were they ever taught how to cultivate a heightened sense of
awareness. To them, either one is awake or one is sleeping. The fact is that you
can be fully conscious, semi-conscious, and not conscious at all in your dreams
as well as in your waking life. It all depends on your level of mindfulness,
your quality of awareness. Do you ever realize you've been listening to the
radio yet haven't heard it for several minutes? Do you ever drive somewhere
methodically and not remember the drive once you arrive? How about misplacing
your keys? Moments of "zoning out" like this occur when your awareness
strays from the moment at hand. It is a result of losing your mindfulness,
becoming mentally scattered. You may have been daydreaming or planning your day
or truly "in a zone", but the resulting experience is that you were
not fully aware of your position in your current surroundings.
There is nothing wrong with daydreaming or planning your day. The point is
that we often overlook the transition of our awareness from one moment to the
next. The thoughts we have often flutter through our minds without us even
taking note of them, let alone actively taking part in their creation and
guidance. The point is not to be obsessed with your surroundings but to be aware
of your awareness. Becoming aware of your thoughts and thinking patterns is just
as important as identifying your dreamsigns and dream patterns. Changing your
thoughts will change your awareness, and the idea is to have your awareness
programmed and locked on self-observant aware mode instead of running on some
non-reflective auto-pilot mode.
It is as if we are normally aware of riding the crest of a wave produced by
external factors instead of guiding our awareness ourselves. We often react more
than we reflect which leads to automated behavior. We become less questioning
which in turn reduces our awareness to what we already know, or think we know.
We habitually identify with our position on this crest so that after a while we
fail to realize that there even are any other ways of viewing it. We overlook
our part in the ocean. We disregard the active role that we play in guiding our
awareness.
Try to remain aware of your awareness as if you were a bystander just
watching where it goes and how it flows. The longer you can sustain this level
of awareness, the better. But it isn't as easy as it sounds, and if you think it
is, try sustaining it all day long and then realize how often you lose your
mindfulness. The fact is that we aren't in the habit of being aware, but this is
a habit that must be changed. How is your awareness flowing from one point to
the next? How often throughout the day are you aware of your awareness as well
as your position in your surroundings? It is this kind of mindfulness that you
need to cultivate. It is this kind of centering and grounding of your awareness
in awareness that you need to practice and develop until it becomes second
nature, or hopefully even first nature.
Practicing meditation is an excellent way to exercise your awareness. Studies
done by Jayne I. Gackenbach, a notable lucid dream researcher, show a direct
correlation between meditation and lucid dreaming. People who meditate have a
greater likelihood of having lucid dreams compared to non-meditators. Both
meditators and lucid dreamers "are able to become "caught up" in
an experience, and are aware of their inner thoughts and internal
processes." (* Dreamtime,Dreamwork, pg244-45) This could be due to the
emphasis put on consciously developing one's awareness. By exercising your
awareness, you are more able to be "in the moment", an ability that
greatly enhances your lucid dreaming ability. "In addition, meditators and
lucid dreamers find it easier to recall their dreams and tend to be "field
independent" (that is, they could find their way out of a forest more
easily than "field dependent" people, because they are not as easily
influenced by people or objects in their environment.)" (*Dreamtime/work,
pg 245) Other studies by Alexander, Boyle, and Alexander have shown that both
lucid dreamers and meditators "have less stress-related personality
characteristics" than their non-meditating and non-lucid dreaming
counterparts. Less stress means less stress-related dreams, and that results in
better dreams as a whole. If lucid dreaming and meditating have these beneficial
effects on our waking and dreaming lives, incorporating both practices into your
daily routine will produce direct results.
Meditation and lucid dreaming are intimately linked. By learning more about
meditating and practicing it regularly, you will be stacking the odds in your
favor when it comes to lucid dreaming. Many of the principles involved in
meditation have a direct bearing on lucid dreaming. Meditation can be used to
induce profound states of relaxation, and these relaxed states are extremely
beneficial for inducing lucid dreams. Also, the goal of many meditational
approaches is to silence the mind. Creating inner silence and stopping one's
internal dialogue is an important technique we will cover when we discuss some
of the methods of inducing lucid dreams.
Meditation also develops the ability to have a detached awareness, an
awareness that allows itself to operate like a slightly removed observer. Once
again, this ability to have a detached awareness will be extremely useful when
attempting many of the lucid dream induction techniques. Meditation also
requires developing a certain amount of control over your awareness. Since this
is a major prerequisite for lucid dreaming, it is highly advisable to
incorporate meditation into your lucid dreaming regime.
Now that you have an understanding of these concepts, the best way to create
results is to apply them toward our goal, lucid dreaming. In order to learn to
lucid dream, you must be able to differentiate between what is
"reality" and what is a dream. You must develop a questioning
awareness. While awake you should be regularly doing "reality checks".
There are two parts to a reality check. The first part is asking yourself if you
are dreaming or not, and the second part is testing your surroundings to verify
if in fact you are dreaming or not.
These reality checks should be done frequently throughout the day. The idea
is to engrain this habit into your daily routine so that it will spill over into
your dreams. If you practice this consistently, it is just a matter of time
until you perform a reality check while dreaming, and if you test your
surroundings carefully enough you will realize you are dreaming. In the
beginning, I would set the alarm on my wristwatch to go off every half hour as a
constant reminder to do my reality checks. Another technique is to write one
letter on each hand or wrist and each time you notice the letters you perform a
reality check. You could use an L on one and a D on the other to stand for Lucid
Dream or B and C for Become Conscious. The letters themselves mean very little.
It is remembering to do the reality check that matters, and if this is a method
you use regularly, it will surely make its way into your dreams to remind you to
question your surroundings.
Asking if you are dreaming is the easy part. The trick is to be able to
distinguish whether you are really dreaming or not. One word to sum up your
analytical approach would be scrutiny. The idea is to look for strange or
illogical things that could only occur if you were dreaming, but sometimes it is
hard to tell so scrutinize your whole environment for clues and cues. For
example, the idea of pinching yourself to make sure you are not dreaming does
not hold that much weight in the dream realm. You may actually feel the pinch in
your dream, and this may lead you to believe that you aren't dreaming unless you
perform other tests.
For some reason, we are much more accepting and much less analytical of
inconsistencies while dreaming so performing multiple reality checks maximizes
the odds of becoming lucid if in fact we are dreaming. It is also very helpful
to always assume that you are dreaming even if the tests indicate otherwise. You
should keep testing and keep trying all of the different reality checks until
one works, and only after you have exhausted all options should you conclude
that you are not dreaming. From scrutiny to lucidity, you will learn which
reality checks work best for you. As you get some experience, you will see
first-hand how important it is to be questioning and persistent, but luckily
with all the recent research into lucid dreaming, reality checks are no longer a
hit or miss scenario. Many of them show wide-ranging effectiveness among all
dreamers.
Here is a list of the most effective reality checks:
1.) The Common Sense Test: This is the first and most obvious check. Examine
your surroundings for anything that should not logically be there. Ask if this
could happen in your normal life. Look for inconsistencies. Are you somewhere
you have never been before? Are you with people who live on the other side of
the country? Is there an elephant in your kitchen? These are the kinds of
discrepancies that can spark your lucidity.
2.) The Reading Check: This is one of the most effective checks. Simply look
around and find something to read. After reading it, look away and then look
back again to reread it. Do this several times. If you are dreaming, the text or
numbers will usually change after several glances. It may become garbled or may
have changed completely or it may not remain stable while you are reading it.
Anything containing words or numbers will work: a book, a street sign, or an
address. Many people use the dial on their dream watch. This is an extremely
effective technique and seems to work for the majority of dreamers.
3.) The Flying or Levitation Check: This is another very effective check. See
if you are able to fly. If you are not able to fly, try to levitate or hover
slightly above the ground. As you become more skilled at lucid dreaming, this
may become your favorite check, as it is mine. The only downside is that at
times you may try this and be unable to fly or levitate, yet you still may be
dreaming. Always remember to use this in combination with other checks unless of
course it immediately works which in most cases it will.
4.) The Light Switch Check: This is usually a quite reliable check. Find a
light switch and turn it on and off. If it malfunctions then the odds are you
are dreaming. Try it several times and pay close attention to when it should be
on and when it should be off. It usually will not take long before it
malfunctions or operates correctly while in the wrong position.
5.) The Memory Check: This is a very effective but largely unknown method.
Simply backtrack in your mind where you have just come from and what you have
been doing. Keep thinking back as far as you can and eventually you may find
that there are inconsistencies in your memory. By backtracking your dream
memory, you may also become aware of something illogical that has happened which
you had overlooked at the time. You also may find that you have an amnesia-like
block that prevents you from remembering accurately. In all of these cases, you
can safely assume that you are dreaming.
6.) The Mirror Check: This is not only an extremely effective method but as
an added bonus, it usually results in quite a remarkable experience. Find a
mirror and while gazing at yourself, ask if you are dreaming. You may become
startled by your reflection. You may be younger or older or have different
hairstyle or different hair color, or you may even be someone different
entirely. Any of these inconsistencies would be an obvious indicator that you
are in fact dreaming. Plus, if you incorporate this check into your morning
routine you will be more likely to transform any of your false awakenings into
lucid dreams.
7.) The Self Observation Test: This is also a very useful check. Just take a
look at yourself. Examine your hands, arms, legs, and clothing. Usually you will
immediately be tipped off that are dreaming because you will be wearing clothes
that you do not own. Other times, simply looking at your dream body will spark
your lucidity.
8.) The Penetration of Matter Check: This is not the most reliable method but
it has helped me on many occasions. Simply try to push your finger through
something solid like a wall or a door or a glass. At first, it may not work but
if you believe that you can do it, you eventually will be able to pass your
finger right through any solid if you are dreaming. As an added bonus on this
check, you are also developing your ability to allow your beliefs to directly
influence your experience.
9.) The Gravity Check: This is a somewhat reliable check. Find something that
you can throw into the air and catch safely. Start tossing it up and down and
you may just find that it isn't obeying the laws of gravity that it should if
you were in "reality". To maximize the success of this check, while
tossing it into the air try to effect the object's rise and fall with your mind.
You could also try jumping up and down to produce the same results.
10.) The Questioning of Dream Characters Check: This may not be the best
thing to try while awake but sometimes it can be effective if in fact you are
dreaming. In "reality" if you asked people if we were in a dream,
their response would be to accuse you of being insane, yet in the dream realm,
it is sometimes a different matter. Usually the dream characters will deny that
it is a dream, but they deny it in a strange manner without ever questioning
your sanity, and in some cases, they don't even understand what you are saying
and disregard you entirely. Most dream characters will deny it is a dream, but
the key to this test rests in how they deny it. Also, on rare occasions, someone
in your dream will admit that it is in fact a dream.
11.) The Friend Check: This is a very useful check. Simply perform a reality
check whenever you encounter any of your friends during the day. Whether it is
your best friend, your mother, or your pet, whenever you see them take a few
seconds or as long as needed to determine if you could be dreaming. Since the
odds are that you will often have friends in your dreams, this check is very
effective as long as you consistently practice it during the day.
As mentioned earlier, these reality checks should be practiced regularly
throughout the day. The more they become embedded into your daily routine, the
sooner they will appear in your dreams. If there were one word that sums up what
you need to develop in order to speed up the lucid dreaming process, it would be
awareness. Working on your awareness will have direct carryover effects into
your dreams, and once you become more skilled at lucid dreaming you will realize
that your awareness combined with your intent is your passport into the dream
realm.
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