Bosma, Harry (1997 October).Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and
bad dreams. Electric Dreams 4(10), <www.dreamgate.com/dream/ed-backissues/ed4-10bos.htm>
(Oct 28, 1997).
Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and bad dreams
August 1994 a doctor diagnosed me with mono. Apart from sometimes
literally paralyzing fatigue during the few hours I didn't sleep, I suffered
from neurological problems like short-term memory loss, not being able
to read, not able to speak very well or understand what other's were saying,
and so on. As most doctors - at least in the Netherlands - believe that
mono can't take longer than a year maximum, Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (CFS)
seemed to be the next-best name for the disease. Unfortunately most Dutch
hospitals have the policy of not doing CFS diagnoses.
During most of the disease disturbing dreams seemed to confirm that
something was wrong. Compared to my dreams before the disease I've suddenly
gotten very many dreams with aggression aimed at the dreamer as well as
well as relatively contained violence to large scale civil wars.
The first wave of violent dreams had the most impressive dreams in
which I was personally attacked. That could be with the use of all kinds
of weapons: canons, guns, knifes, swords and so on. The worst were the
backstabbing dreams. The first two backstabbing dreams somewhere in 1995
did hurt a lot. Let nobody tell me that you can't feel pain in dreams!
There isn't much to tell about these early dreams. Back then my dreams
seemed rather short, like very small videoclips appearing and immediately
disappearing in the dark. I got stabbed, it hurt and that was it. The last
backstabbing dream I've had is a relatively mild dream as it seems to offer
some explanation as well.
(february 18 1997)
I'm poor, look poor. I live in a big but old worn-out building. There
is no furniture, perhaps a bed in one of the rooms. A friend of mine leaves
and should get a taxi. We go outside. I draw my wallet and I'm greatly
surprised by the huge amount of money I have and also that I'm showing
this openly. I give my friend a few 10 bills.
To someone (my friend in the taxi?) I call out we will get this mess
beyond us someday.
Inside again, another friend wants to exchange his belt with mine.
I think it's a bad trade, I like mine better, his has a big ugly buckle.
But I don't care that much and if he likes it... He also wants the trousers
to go with it. "The green one?", I ask. Yes, of course. It makes
sense, I feel the belt and green trousers are one piece too.
I tell him I'm going to shower. I walk to the opposite side of the
building, over a kind of wall or ridge, something rather unusual to have
in a building. Just when I want to enter the bathroom, my friend stabs
a knife in my back. He wants to murder me. I shout for help as loud as
I can. I'm even afraid that my sleeping body is shouting too (although
this isn't a lucid dream). I now realize that the other murders were done
by him too. I always had some suspicion, but never really believed the
rumors. While waiting for help I look disembodied at people in the environment
of the building. They've heard me, help it on its way.
Almost since the beginning of the disease I've had dreams were the
dream people were fighting each other. The scale of the fights seem to
have gotten smaller over the years and somehow it's like I've been able
to interfere in this myself. In a dream of september 17 1996 one of my
dreamfriends almost begs me to enter a room because they're on the verge
of a fight again. I do so reluctantly because I'm tired of it, I can't
stand it anymore. But I enter the room and everybody stays calm.
One of the worst dreams was one where even the peacekeepers started killing.
(september 19 1996)
In the street beyond me somebody gets executed by the police. They
even brag about it among eachother. Having witnessed this I don't feel
safe. I run into a small alley but notice being followed by a woman connected
to the police. I climb over a fence. The woman is on the other side and
turns into cloth resembling a huge bat. The cloth climbs the fence sideways
towards me. When I climb down on the other side (the side of the cloth),
I see myself at the back. She / the cloth has overtaken me and covers or
better buries me completely.
For the last 6 months the frequency of this kind of bad dreams has been reduced much. Which I find promising of course. Recent dreams seem to focus on keeping a balance between activity and rest. If you have no choice but to sleep 15 hours a day and stay at bed the other 9 hours, it's perfectly clear what you can do. I've improved a lot although I still haven't anything that comes close to a social life, let alone that I can hold a job. Compared from where I'm coming from I know feel not really ill nor really cured. To finish, here's one of my latest nightmares that reflects the disease in its violence and my uncertainty in my delayed action.
Boy drowns girl
(August 8 1997)
I'm in the kitchen. To my surprise the water is as almost as high
as the window. (When did that happen?!) Children now swim very near to
our house. Right beyond the kitchen window swim a boy and a girl. The girl
wears glasses. The boys snatches her glasses and breaks them, throws the
pieces away. She apparently didn't see what he did because she looks for
her glasses floating around. The boy then pushes her under water. I can't
believe my eyes. Is he now trying to kill her as well? No, this is no joke,
he doesn't plan to let her go.
I open the window to lift the boy out of the water. I think I lack the strength to do so. Besides, ain't I too late already?
(The house I'm currently living in is at a canal to a nearby small lake. If the water is high it floats the lower terrace)
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