Meanwhile - Let us be good to the children in our
lives - and add more children to our lives who need some
good. --- Joy
Fatooh
On The World Dreams Peace Bridge this month, a major theme
seems to have been the dreams of children. In war-torn Iraq;
in Peace Train activities in Germany and Australia; in Dallas,
Texas and Manchester, England, members and supporters of the
Peace Bridge have been thinking about and listening to
children and their dreams.
During the recent conference of the International
Association for the Study of Dreams in Copenhagen, Denmark,
attended by several members of the Peace Bridge, I began to
listen to people as they talked about working with children
and their dreams, "I would be worried that the parents might
think I was trying to influence the children," said one man.
"I love children; and they love me," said another. "The most
important thing in working with children's dreams is being
able to listen," said Brenda Mallon, author of Dream Time With
Children.
On Monday, July 12, just before a scheduled Peace Train
workshop in Germany, Ralf Penderak's eleven-year old son,
Alex, had the following dream:
I get a letter saying I must go to the army. I
am eighteen. It is just seven days of school left. I have
nightmares every night in that week. I don’t know what will
happen. I’m fearful. I fear I’m going to die. I awake after
the seventh night and think, now I have to go. Then I awake
one more time, and wonder, what is going on. Is this reality
or is it another dimension? It dawns on me that I actually am
eleven years old and don’t have to be a soldier
now.
A Peace Train workshop, is an activity that can be taken on
by anyone interested in peace. Information on Peace Trains can
be found on the World Dreams web site at http://www.worlddreamspeacebridge.org
Before the workshop Ralf planned, inviting Alex and his
cousins, Ralf also had a many dreams. "I had dreams related to
the Peace Train meeting, showing that his was also for me
bringing up issues of self confidence, creativity, anger, war
and peace. But this wasn't only due to the Peace train
activities," Ralf said. "but a result of the intense dream
work related to the Copenhagen conference and the World Dreams
Peace Bridge."
One of Ralf's dreams was this one:
Ripping the Red
Rag
There is a deep red cloth right before my
face, that fills my entire field of vision. I grab it with
both hands and tear, until it is beginning to rip in the
middle. Through the rip I see blue skies. Now I see myself
sitting there on a table with the cloth and passing on my
work to a boy. He is supposed to continue, what I have
begun.
The work of the Peace Bridge operates on many levels, both
in dreams and in waking reality. Peace Trains were also
created in Australia this month in a workshop led by Victoria
Quinton. Nick Cumbo celebrated A Day Out of Time, the New
Year's day of the Mayan Calendar, and the anniversary of
Jeremy Seligson's Peace Train Dream by having a Peace Train
DaFuMu on his web site at www.dreamofpeace.net
Immediately after the Copenhagen conference, members of the
Peace Bridge held a DaFuMu dreaming for peace during the NATO
meetings being held in Istanbul, Turkey. Possibly these dreams
contributed to the fact that there was no major outbreak of
violence during the talks. One could hope so, even though not
even all members of the Peace Bridge knew about the DaFuMu
dreaming.
Joy Fatooh wrote on July 12:
I've just quickly skimmed through all your
writings that came in while I was away. I gather that there
was a DaFuMu last night? Sorry I missed the announcement,
but I didn't miss the DaFuMu! I stopped at my mom's house on
my way back over the mountains and slept on her floor, and
decided I might dream something pertinent to our discussion
about violence and peace to share with you all.
Dream:
In an overpriced specialty ice cream shop I
bought one small scoop of pistachio and set it on a table
while I paid. When I turned around, a tall, gaunt, scruffy
man had taken my ice cream to another table and was calmly
eating it. He looked probably poor, possibly homeless, and I
didn't so much mind him having my ice cream; but my thought
was that it might not be good for me or him or society if I
didn't insist on something in exchange. So even though I was
a little worried that he might be a bit deranged, I said,
"Hey, that was mine - what are you going to give me for
it?"
He just sat there and looked at me while he
ate. I said, "You don't have to pay what I paid for it, but
you should give me something to make it fair." I saw a pile
of coins on the table beside him and asked, "How about one
of these quarters?" But he said, "Those aren't quarters,"
and on a closer look I saw that they were some kind of
foreign coin.
I asked, "Could I have one for my nephew's
coin collection?" He said, "No, you can't have one of those.
But here," he took from his big coat pocket a double handful
of clever little wire sculptures. They were very nicely made
little human figures of shiny black wire, all posed with
various weapons like toy soldiers.
I don't know any kids who play with toy
soldiers and I didn't care for the combative poses myself,
but I sorted through them and chose three that were unarmed.
However, arriving home a moment later, I realized that I
hadn't taken them with me.
I went back - now the place was somehow at
the other end of my own house, near the hot springs - and I
was informed that by accepting three of the figures I had
been inducted into some kind of secret society. The unarmed
three I'd chosen were gone. I looked through the pile again
and found three that were armed, yet did not look aggressive
- rather, conveyed a sort of graceful, tai chi-like
readiness. My favorite was a woman with bow and arrow, the
drawn bow forming a lovely curve that led into the curve of
her body, held far forward as she stood on the toes of one
forward-striding foot, somehow incredibly
balanced.
"Yes, Balance," the impersonal
narrator/voice-over/ Dream-Voice-of-Wisdom intoned - "Balance
is what it's all about."
With an amazing set of synchronicities involving our old
friend the Phoenix and a new member from Sydney, Australia Su
Leybourn, a set of children's dreams of peace brought Valley
Reed back to the Peace Bridge. You may remember Valley's dream
of the Crow and the Phoenix which she danced at the ASD
Regional Conference in 2002. You can see photos of the tale of
Anna Belle and her friend the umbrella in the dance at http://asdreams.org/conferences/2002cincinnati/crow_and_phoenix.htm
Valley had dropped out of e-mail contact
several months ago.
Though the entire story is too long to tell here, toward
the end of July, a post arrived in the contact box on the
World Dreams site from the director of the youth program at a
Unity Church in Dallas, Texas. Children from the church had
written cards and drawn pictures expressing their dreams of
peace, which they wanted to send to children in Iraq. They
wondered if we could help them find somewhere to send
them.
Well, of course we knew just the place, as we have been
sending packages to the Seasons Art School in Baghdad for the
past several months, but out of curiosity I asked where the
Unity Church in Dallas might have heard of the Peace Bridge.
Through Valley Reed, of course. She is now on staff at the
Dallas Peace Center, one of the oldest and most respected
peace groups in the country.
So the dreams of the children in Dallas connected with the
dreams of the children in Baghdad, and one more contact has
been made.
From the children who attend the Seasons Art School, we
have begun to receive individual e-mails. The program at the
Seasons Art School is not a regular school program, but a
therapeutic program, directed by a graduate student from the
University of Baghdad, Emad Hadi. The school sees several
hundred children in morning and afternoon sessions, working
with them in art, theater, music, computers and other means of
self expression, attempting to deal with the effects of
war.
So far, in the past month, a dozen children from the
school, who are learning English and computers, have written
individual email notes to the Peace Bridge, and have received
in return e-mails, postcards and letters from individuals on
the Bridge. We are hoping to establish a page on the World
Dreams web site, through which individual children can be
paired with others around the world to develop a true
communication.
The Childhoods Voices program, the parent program of the
school, has also set up another program this summer in one of
the poorest districts of Baghdad, the Peace Birds School. This
is what they say about that program:
All over the world, a child wakes up cheerfully every
morning with his/her dreams and ambitions, with the innocent
hope, that he/she will have a future without fear. However,
the dreams of our Iraqi children have become more special, not
because of their beauty or colour, but because of their tragic
pain and sorrow. Our Iraqi children wake up with a big burden
of fear, and with no smile. They are afraid of everything and
nothing, because their fear has become the tangible reality in
which they live from day to day. Their fears range from not
being able to reach school because of the razor wire put by
occupation forces in many areas, and sometimes around their
schools, sudden explosions which may occur at any time, the
security situation in the streets which prevents them from
playing with their friends or outside their homes and even
their homes have become unsafe for them. Put simply, Iraqi
children are afraid, from childhood, of annihilation.
Obviously, this is not something they enjoy but is a
reality which is enforced on to them. Therefore, it is our
duty to carry the message of peace with us, so as to implant
in the minds of our birds that they can live in peace. For
this reason, "Peace Birds Art School" has been established in
the Al-Dura District.
During the month of July, one final thing has been
happening on the World Dreams Peace Bridge that has to do with
the dreams of children. Brenda Mallon from Manchester,
England, author of the excellent book *Dream Time With
Children*, has agreed to send copies of this book to the
teachers in Iraq, and we have begun conversations with Emad
and others in the school about the possibility of working with
the children with their dreams. This is a delicate activity,
of course, but Brenda, who has worked with children in
northern Ireland and other situations involving conflict, is
particularly well-suited to the task of helping people to
understand the role of war and conflict in the dream lives of
children:
"Dreams act as an internal information system--they are
messages from ourselves to ourselves," says Brenda Mallon.
"They reveal inner struggles and expose the complexity of
working out who you are in a confusing world. This is
particularly the case for growing children who find that both
the physical and emotional changes they experience influence
their dream life." (13)
By making connection with the dreams of children the world
over, members of the World Dreams Peace Bridge hope to assist
in facilitating a communication between adults and children,
and children with children,that can broaden the field of
possible peaceful interaction.
We encourage you to visit the World Dreams Peace Bridge web
site at http://www.worlddreamspeacebridge.org
or to subscribe to the World Dreams discussion group at
mailto:
worlddreams-subscribe@yahoogroups.com
If any of you have ever dreamed, as I have,
Thank you.
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